Est. Memphis, Tennessee

The Tea Room
Charm & Finishing School.

Memphis’s preeminent boutique finishing school. Elevating individuals through etiquette coaching, fine dining protocol, and executive image consulting.

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Curriculum & Consulting

Signature Programs

Debutante Prom Preparation

Class includes

  • Table Manners
  • Personal Manners
  • Posture / Poise Training
  • Social Skills Training
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Fine Dining Etiquette Class

Class includes

  • Fine Dining
  • Table Manners
  • Three Course Meal
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Imagine Consulting Class

Class includes

  • Self-Esteem Building
  • Personal Manners
  • Social Skills Training
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The Founder

Four Decades of
Defining Excellence.

Angela Rixter-Payne is a native Memphian who has defined style and substance for over four decades — from the runways of Elite Modeling Agency to her celebrated recognition as a Tri-State Defender Woman of Excellence.

As a Certified Etiquette Expert, she has guided debutantes, executives, and Greek organization leaders into the version of themselves that commands every room they enter. She is not merely an instructor. She is a legacy builder.

Angela Rixter-Payne — Certified Etiquette Expert
Voices of Distinction

What They Say

My son Andrew was in attendance and really enjoyed learning different skills in proper dining. Thanks so much.

Sylvia G.Parent · Kappa League of Memphis

I highly recommend sending your kids to this event. Mrs. Payne does an excellent job and your kids will use these skills for the rest of their lives.

Steve T.Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity, Inc. · Memphis Alumni Chapter

Many blessings for The Tea Room Charm and Finishing School — super amazing and highly recommended for youth and adults. Angela Rixter-Payne keep shining bright.

Crystal W.H.

Thank you again so much for your service! The children enjoyed the activity and we received positive feedback from the survey the children submitted.

LaTonya M.Jack and Jill of America, Inc.

Thank you. Three of my sons were privileged to learn from you that evening.

Terry R.Parent · Kappa League of Memphis

I am sure that the information you presented helped them to plant the seeds of high expectations, self-respect, and self-confidence. The presentation was great and our ministry was pleased.

Barbara B.Decisions by Design

The girls said it was an awesome experience and they really enjoyed it. Thank you for your service. You are truly making memories that will last a lifetime.

Tatiana T.J.Parent · Table Manners at Capital Grille

I love everything about this! My little cousins said it was fun and they learned a lot! They taught me a few things! Keep making a difference in the lives of young people!

Adrian W.P.

My son Andrew was in attendance and really enjoyed learning different skills in proper dining. Thanks so much.

Sylvia G.Parent · Kappa League of Memphis

I highly recommend sending your kids to this event. Mrs. Payne does an excellent job and your kids will use these skills for the rest of their lives.

Steve T.Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity, Inc. · Memphis Alumni Chapter

Many blessings for The Tea Room Charm and Finishing School — super amazing and highly recommended for youth and adults. Angela Rixter-Payne keep shining bright.

Crystal W.H.

Thank you again so much for your service! The children enjoyed the activity and we received positive feedback from the survey the children submitted.

LaTonya M.Jack and Jill of America, Inc.

Thank you. Three of my sons were privileged to learn from you that evening.

Terry R.Parent · Kappa League of Memphis

I am sure that the information you presented helped them to plant the seeds of high expectations, self-respect, and self-confidence. The presentation was great and our ministry was pleased.

Barbara B.Decisions by Design

The girls said it was an awesome experience and they really enjoyed it. Thank you for your service. You are truly making memories that will last a lifetime.

Tatiana T.J.Parent · Table Manners at Capital Grille

I love everything about this! My little cousins said it was fun and they learned a lot! They taught me a few things! Keep making a difference in the lives of young people!

Adrian W.P.
Begin Your Journey

Every Distinguished Story Begins
with One Intentional Step.

Angela’s office responds within 48 hours. We look forward to welcoming you into our next cohort.

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